From chaotic home life to dealing with Jim Crow-like racism in the heart of Long Island, New York, this woman has paid in full for her Diva status. — I have to admit, I am not part of the Lambily, Mariah Carey’s name for her most dedicated fans, yet, for anyone like me, who came up in the 90s, her music is the soundtrack of our lives. Back then, it was fun, bouncy, and full of love and hope…